Comments on: If You Feel Like a Mess, It’s Working

By: On Asking for Help | The Wayfinder Post

On Asking for Help | The Wayfinder Post — Sat, 22 Dec 2012 15:10:29 +0000

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By: Life in the Trenches: When Everything Changes | The Wayfinder Post

Life in the Trenches: When Everything Changes | The Wayfinder Post — Fri, 16 Nov 2012 14:24:59 +0000

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By: Gina

Gina — Sun, 26 Aug 2012 16:16:28 +0000

Thank you, thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! This was exactly what I needed to read right now. <3

By: Paige

Paige — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 17:42:14 +0000

In reply to Abigail. I know this is an old post but I just found it. Thank you for writing it. I was at the gym this morning smiling, laughing, enjoying my music by the time I got home and off to work I had cried twice and now I am fine. Wow what an awesome thing. I don't think I have ever felt my emotions as they have come up. It is amazing how fast they can flow through when you do. I have a very high shame feeling in my personality and that is the only one so far that is hard for me to feel but I am trying. Thanks again Abigail for this great work. I love it Paige

By: Want to Heal? Be a Hot Mess | The Wayfinder Post

Want to Heal? Be a Hot Mess | The Wayfinder Post — Sat, 03 Dec 2011 13:31:08 +0000

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By: Want to Heal? Be a Hot Mess. « The Healthy Life Coach

Want to Heal? Be a Hot Mess. « The Healthy Life Coach — Thu, 01 Dec 2011 11:04:11 +0000

[…] have a group of coaches taking my Mind-Body Coach Training. They’ve been thrown into what I call The Mess as they experience the first part of the training. This just means that they are learning how to […]

By: Abigail

Abigail — Wed, 06 Jul 2011 03:35:13 +0000

In reply to Loving Husband Dave. Yep, that's about right! :-)

By: Loving Husband Dave

Loving Husband Dave — Wed, 06 Jul 2011 01:46:54 +0000

My wife showed me this, and I have to say this helps me understand what’s going on too. Also, I’d like to ad that she seems more “emotional” but she also seems less irritated (cranky). Does that sound right?

Anyway, thanks.

By: Abigail

Abigail — Fri, 01 Jul 2011 19:54:20 +0000

In reply to Alice. You're so welcome, Alice! I know you think like that, because I do! :-) Plus, I get to know my clients pretty well...:-)

By: Alice

Alice — Fri, 01 Jul 2011 12:06:05 +0000

Abigail,

I want to thank you for all the times I’ve needed some reassurance and you have been there, guiding us through. I have been well and truly in the mess for a little while now. In actual fact I truly believe I am coming out the other side. Today however, I still struggled with resisting the emotions, as they weren’t on my schedule (how do you know we all think like this) I didn’t want to own them and boy did it feel loads worse not to own them.
So thank you again for gently guiding us all
xxxAlice